Does anyone else find it annoying that people are calling Sofia Vergara a cougar for being with Joe Manganiello? Until the age difference gets to be ten plus years it is not that big of a deal and no one would even mention the age difference if it were the other way around. Unless we are gonna label older men with some predatory name for dating women more than three years younger it needs to stop. Until you call George Clooney a sun bear (they are supposedly the most aggressive and dangerous of the bears) or a wild boar (supposedly the most ferocious of animals) for persistently pursuing women that are significantly younger you need to stop calling women cougars for dating younger men. Besides, women typically outlive men by eight years anyway.
As I am Bitter Betty number one I will make this about me, until the other two decide to contribute to something more than the name. I am a graduate of UNLV, but am native to California, and while my personality prefers California, my bank account (though quite empty at the moment) prefers Las Vegas. I am quite contrary in my personality, in that I am both quite opinionated, and pretty much an introvert. A bit of an enigma I suppose. I am a huge animal lover with dreams of starting my own animal sanctuary. I love crafting, arts, and music of all sorts, and have many interests if I could just get myself to stay out of pain long enough, or focus on one particular thing long enough, to perfect it. I have been in multiple car accidents (none of which were my fault thank you very much as I was usually the passenger), have been told that I likely have fibromyalgia (but for some reason I can't get my doctors to further explore the issue), suffer from chronic migraines, as well as every other kind of headache that exists, and a laundry list of problems associated with these issues and because of this I can't attack my various interests as often, or as voraciously as I would like, and have been out of work for several years. I'd like to get my own business started so that I could bring in an income while having the freedom that I need in performing a job that allows me to stop and start as needed in order to avoid as much pain as possible.